5 Things All Men Should Know About S.ex

1. Do not have s.ex with a woman if she has feelings for you when you don't have any for her. If you are looking for a one night stand or s.ex without emotion, make sure your partner is on the same level and is looking for the same thing. On the same note, remember that it was a one night stand and if you continue to see each other, one of you is bound to develop feelings for the other and often times feelings get hurt and nobody wins. You will crush her heart as she tries to replace the intimacy she desires with the emotionless s.ex you offer. Be a gentleman and do not put a woman in that situation.

2. You need to understand the difference between "love" and "lust". Many young men of today's generation do not know the difference at all. Intense s.exual attraction clouds the minds of men. Here are some signs that you might just be in "lust":

a. You do not pay attention to what she really has to say but you give her your full attention when she is naked.
b. Either you want to leave real soon or you want her to leave real soon after s.ex
c. You are lovers not friends
d. If you have no interest outside the bedroom... It is lust.

3. S.ex is for both you and her. Just because you are finished doesn't mean that you get to turn around and have your back facing her and fall asleep. That is both rude and immature. Also, just because you are finished, doesn't mean she is. She might still want to continue or at least cuddle. So even if you are tired, man up and give her the attention she deserves.

4. Do not compare to past lovers. The past is the past and it is best to keep it that way in those regards. Once past lovers are brought up it can lead to trouble. Things can get uncomfortable if you know too much about each other right away. Your full attention should be on each other not on how you compared to the others. Your main goal is to make her feel secure both physically and emotionally.

5. Do not have s.ex with a woman who has been drinking... not even a little. Even if she says she wants to. She might have said so under the influence of this toxic and this might cause her to be very mad at you when it finally clears off.